Thursday, May 1, 2014

The Danger in Telling the Truth A Drash for Friday, 02 May 2014

Former British PM, Tony Blair
I know you may find this incredible, but I as an American do follow the political scene in other countries!  In particular, I have long followed British politics.  As you know, the two countries, the UK and the USA, have always had a very special relationship.  As you may remember, back in the 1980’s when the US President was the Republican Ronald Reagan, Britain was ruled by the Tories under Margaret Thatcher.
          I always liked “the Iron Lady.” I thought she was a formidable force and of course had a very strong friendship with President Reagan which brought the UK and the US even closer during those years.
          During most of the first decade of the new century, George W. Bush served as the US President. Tony Blair was the British PM.  It would have been counterintuitive to expect an especially warm working relationship between the Labourite Blair and the Republican Bush.  But the two were, by all accounts, best of friends and close confidants.  This, despite that Blair had also been close to the previous US President, Bill Clinton, and remains a good friend of the Clintons to this day.
          Whether because of or despite this – okay, it’s because! – I’ve long liked Tony Blair.  It’s hard not to respect a political leader who can form strong friendships with those of his own, as well as other, political philosophies.  Who takes a principled stand that, in effect, ruins his standing in his own party as Blair did with his support of Operation Iraqi Freedom.  So Tony Blair is a British politician I’ve admired and followed over the years.
          As the political leaders we most admire tend to do, Tony Blair after retiring from politics has spent his years in public service.  He has been serving as Special Envoy of the Middle East Quartet, a loose consortium consisting of the UN, the EU, the Russian Republic and the USA.  He has spent the last seven years travelling in the Middle East and talking to other world leaders about the Middle East.  His is a voice which is deeply respected by most of the principals to the Middle East Conflict, as well as by leaders around the world.
          Last week in London, Tony Blair addressed the Elephant in the Room that makes it so difficult for the West to come to terms with the Middle East.  And that Elephant is the fact that Radical Islam, or Islamism as it’s often called, is a warped and aggressive ideology on the order of what were arguably the most injurious such ideologies on the planet during the twentieth century:  Nazi fascism and Soviet communism.  And while he of course offered the caveat that not all Muslims are Islamists, he sounded a very direct and serious warning:  “The threat of radical Islam is not abating.  It is growing. It is spreading across the world. It is de-stabilizing communities and even nations. It is undermining the possibility of peaceful co-existence in an era of globalisation.”
          Strong words.  But much of the world’s press has ignored them.  Zev Chafets did not.  He’s an American-born Israeli, a former president of the Reform Jewish youth group NFTY and author of several good books who appears on FOX News.  Chafets points out that Blair was excoriated and called an ‘Islamophobe’ by “Islamist propagandists and their British fellow travellers.”
          Understand what it would mean to be an ‘Islamophobe.’  A phobia is a baseless, irrational fear.  So an ‘Islamophobe’ would be someone who has a baseless, irrational fear of Islam.  The problem is that there are very real, rational reasons to have concerns about Islamism.  And if anybody has the first-hand knowledge to understand those concerns in a rational way, it is Tony Blair.
          But why mention this on a Friday evening, in shule of all places?
          I mention it because, first, it’s important to have honest conversations about the effect of religion in general, and of specific religions, on society.  We talk about our own religion, and those of our neighbours.  That talk should be honest and frank.
As you know, I am very much a veteran of interfaith dialogue.  I think it is important that people of various religions talk to one another.  But one frustration I have about it, is that very little is said that is substantive.  Interfaith ‘conferences’ generally take the form of love-fests, where participants representing various religious faiths stand up and tell how much their religion loves all others.  Then everybody walks away, feeling good.  Or at least, feeling as if they are supposed to feel good.
          What Tony Blair has done, is the antithesis of these interfaith conferences.  Knowing that he would be excoriated, he stood at the podium and told the truth.  But Blair has a history of doing just that.  And that’s why he is well-respected, and listened to, around the world.  This, despite that some have raked him over the coals for the Iraq War, and now for sounding an alarm about Islamism.
          Which brings me to the second reason I mention this tonight.  It is important to tell what you understand to be the truth.  That is self-evident.  But equally important is how you tell it.  The truth shouldn’t be used as a weapon.  It should serve to enlighten, and to help others to contextualise facts.  And to translate those facts into action.  That’s why gossip is so injurious.  Gossip, or rechilut in Hebrew, is information about another person.  It may very well be true.  But it is repeated not for the purpose of allowing the hearer to make informed decisions.  Rather, its purpose is often to discredit another person.  In that case it is also Evilspeak, or lashon hara.  The Torah forbids it, even  if it is true.  In Australian law it is called Defamation, and it is illegal…even if it is true.
Gossip is the antithesis of directness.  The latter might hurt someone’s feelings now and then, especially if they are unused to it.  But it is a constructive way to tell people what you really think and mean.  To let them know where they stand with you.  It is a good idea to temper directness with a dose of diplomacy.  But we should nevertheless prize directness, and work to apply it in our communications, instead of gossiping.
          None of us in this room is a professional diplomat.  None of us is qualified to speak authoritatively about the causes of Middle East conflict. But each of us can learn an important lesson from Tony Blair.  In particular, from his words last week.  Each of us regularly communicates ideas and facts to others:  in conversation and in writing.  Nobody is factually right all the time.  But we all have a responsibility to communicate what we believe to be right, and to qualify such communication when we don’t know.  This is a skill to use 24/7/365.  As Tony Blair has learned, there is a danger in telling the truth.  But it is important to do so.  Shabbat shalom.   

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