Thursday, May 8, 2014

Love for One’s Fellow Jew: A Drash for Parashat Behar, Saturday 10 May 2014

Once I had a friend who was a Freemason.  You know, the Masons?  The ‘secretive’ fraternal order that has been plotting for centuries to take over the world?  Or at least, which has been accused of doing so.  Sort of like we Jews have.  Maybe there’s a connection there?  Perhaps the Masons are one of the Lost Tribes?  But I digress…
          So I was out with this friend.  I knew nothing about the Masons, except that they were more than a bit secretive about what they do when they get together.  And that their symbol was a compass with the letter ‘G’ in the middle.  I’d seen the symbol on cars, and decorating rings.  My friend wore such a ring.
          My friend had an errand to run, one that required a government clerk to go a bit out of his way:  to give him permission to do a renovation to his house.  If I remember correctly, my friend hadn’t had all the necessary studies done.  On the way over, he fretted over whether he was going to get what he needed from the clerk.  We arrived, we went into the office and we found the person responsible.  He took one look at my friend’s Masonic ring, and quietly signed the permission.  The clerk himself wore a Masonic ring.
          Apart from thinking, sign me up! I thought about the way that the clerk had reacted to my friend once it became clear that they had a connection.  Had I needed a similar permission and it had been denied, I would have rebelled against the favouritism shown my friend.  I would have protested, perhaps bitterly, about the unequal treatment.  I would have complained to anyone who would have listened, perhaps for a long time afterwards, about the ‘clannishness’ of Masons and the very concept of giving favourable treatment to someone based on some shared affiliation.
          Years later, I became familiar with the verse from Parashat Kedoshim, Leviticus 19:18:  You shall love your neighbour as yourself.  I learned that ‘neighbour’ in this context means one’s fellow Jew, not necessarily the family next door.  It seemed to me that this smacks of favouritism.  Of the kind of clannishness to which I would object if someone got superior treatment because of some other affiliation, say being a Mason, that I didn’t share.
          In this morning’s Torah reading from Parashat Behar, in Leviticus 25:35-38, we read about a practical application of the love we’re commanded to harbour towards our fellow Jew.  First, it is important to note that when the Torah commands us to ‘love,’ it does not mean love as an emotional connection.  It is meant in the practical sense:  to show a particular regard and commitment to another person.  In this case, we’re commanded to help our fellow Jew who has come upon hard times.  We’re to lend him money, food, whatever he needs.  We are not to distinguish between the Jew-by-birth and the Jew-by-choice.  But implied, is that it is okay to distinguish between the Jew and the non-Jew.  We are not told that we must show similar charity towards gentiles.  We are not to oppress them, but we can make a buck off them.
          If so, this means that clannishness is okay.  That is, the sort of clannishness that any one of us might find objectionable should we see it used to treat us less fair that someone else.  It’s okay to favour other Jews.  Does that not imply that it’s okay for others to practice favouritism?  Say, for Masons, or Muslims, or ethnic Chinese to favour their kinsmen?  If it’s okay, even prescribed, for Jews, wouldn’t it be only fair for others to be similarly un-fair?
          Maybe, or maybe not.
          Yes, this special regard is commanded with regard to one’s fellow Jew.  To be ready to help them in a time of financial distress by lending them what they need without charging them interest.  But while this expression of filial loyalty is not specifically commanded vis-à-vis the non-Jew, it doesn’t mean that it is not virtuous to extend charity to the gentile as well.  In Leviticus 19:34, we are commanded regarding the stranger who swells in our land:  You shall love the stranger – the foreigner – as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.  So in reality, we are taught that there is one standard of behaviour toward the person in distress, whether that person is a fellow Jew or not.  The Torah is not telling us that we can take advantage of a non-Jew in distress:  rather, that we must treat them with compassion as well.
          I might add here that we have no obligation to lend money for free to someone who has discretionary spending, or investing in mind.  This law is only with regard to someone who has come upon hard times, and lacks basic needs.  And it makes sense that, if their own poor stewardship caused those hard times, then we might provide assistance in kind.  As an example, if a person likely to go out and spend money on alcohol or drugs, complains that he hasn’t what to eat, then it follows that we would give them food or a voucher redeemable only for food, rather than put money in their hands.  This is only logical in a day and age when so many people are in trouble because of various addictions.
          So the main message from these verses of Torah, is not the rendering of special treatment to Jews over others.  Rather, it is compassion for those in distress.  We are to look upon those in hard times as our brothers, whether they are Jews or gentiles.  We are not to separate ourselves from them, to turn them from subjects of our concern to objects of our scorn.  It does not mean that we should eschew making a living when we transact business with one another.  It simply means that with some people, our transactions take on a different dimension than ‘just’ business.

          In this way, we remind ourselves that, as residents of the same city, as citizens of the same land, or as fellow human beings, we are connected to all those whom we encounter.  It is natural to gravitate toward those with whom we share some obvious affiliation.  But at the end of the day, we are all connected.  Shabbat shalom.  

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