Thursday, December 31, 2015

Staying off the Rocks: A Reflection for Parashat Shemot, Saturday 2 January 2016

A recurring theme in Jewish life and history is the question:  What is the balance between assimilation and distinctiveness?  That we assimilate, is simply a given.  Wherever we live in freedom, we grab the opportunities to enjoy the best of what society has to offer.  We make no apologies for this, and we shouldn’t.  To be sure, there are Jews who go to great lengths to avoid participating in the culture of the place where they live.  Whether they live in Antwerp, Brooklyn, or Melbourne.  They seem aloof and untouched by the place where they live.  They live in a self-imposed ghetto.  You could go between certain Jewish enclaves in Antwerp, Brooklyn, and Melbourne…and not realise you had moved to a different country or continent!
          Just as there are Jews who avoid assimilation, there are those who avoid distinctiveness.  There are Jews whom you might meet and get to know, and never know that they’re Jews.  Until some life event brings the hidden Jew to the surface.  Until then, they do not participate in any way in Jewish life.  Thus, they avoid contributing to its vitality and viability.
          Between both extremes are the rest of us.  Wanting to find ways to positively express our Jewish identity.  Seeing no conflict between that, and enjoying the best of the world around us.  We’re like a ship, navigating narrow straits.  Our task is to stay in the channel, in the centre, avoiding the rocks and shoals on both sides. 
I can prove to you that this is the Jewish ‘norm.’  When the Nazis singled out the Jews for persecution, there first acts were to ‘out’ a people – the German Jews – who until then were largely invisible to the average German.  Even if the Christian neighbour knew that a particular family was Jewish, it seldom resulted in that family isolating themselves in a distinctly Jewish world.  In fact, this was one of the Nazis’ chief complaints about the Jews.  That they sought to ‘hide’ among the Germans.  The very pseudo-science of Anti-Semitism was, more than anything else, aimed at enabling Germans to identify the hidden ‘Jewish Menace.’
          Okay, so the Nazi era was relatively recent in the sweep of Jewish history.  Let’s go back to the Maccabean revolt against Assyria.  Assyrian King Antiochus Epiphanes tried to force the Jews to assimilate, because so many Jews were eager to do so.  The king thought that was a good thing and wanted the rest to join in.
          Going further back, you may remember Queen Esther, the heroine of the book of the Tanach named after her.  Her very name – Esther – means ‘Hidden’ in Hebrew, and you may remember that her Cousin Mordechai advised her most strongly to hide her Jewish identity whilst in the palace of Kind Achashverosh.
          Even farther back was Moses:  Mosheh in Hebrew.  But wait, Mosheh isn’t even a Hebrew name…it’s an Egyptian name!  And as you remember – and we start to read the narrative in this week’s Torah portion – Moses was always aware of his identity as a Jew but it only became a motivating force for him at age 40.
          All I’m trying to say, is that this tension between maintaining our distinctiveness as Jews, and our full participation in the surrounding culture, has been a constant theme in Jewish history.  And through most of that history, the majority of Jews dwelt somewhere in the middle of the continuum between assimilation and remaining distinctive.  That is, when we were given the choice.  We avoided disappearing into society on one hand, and remaining aloof and apart on the other.  But at various points in our history we would swing what would turn out to be an excessive distance towards one or the other extreme.  And then, events and their consequences would influence us to chart a more centrist course going forward.  Over the centuries, we worked hard to find a balance.
          Early in this week’s Torah reading we are informed that the Egyptian Pharaoh thought the Jews a threat to his rule.  And we are informed of the Jews’ response:  The more the Pharaoh afflicted them, the more they grew and filled the land.  The midrashic interpreters suggested what this meant:  They filled the theaters and circuses.  This rings true to me.  The other night we went out to the Gold Coast Art Centre to see Suffragette.  Despite our tiny presence on the Gold Coast, we are always conspicuous in our patronage of the ‘serious’ arts.  And sure enough, in the sparse crowd in the theatre the night before New Year’s Eve I recognised several other Jews.
This interpretation, they filled the theatres and circuses, is meant pejoratively.  The more they assimilated, the more the Egyptians thought them a threat.  The sages are implying a circular progression of case and effect.  We responded to our affliction by trying to shed our Jewishness.  And we were punished for our eagerness to do so.
          And yet we know that we are called to be a Nation of Priests, a Holy People, a Light unto the Nations.  Here’s the heart of the matter:  We cannot fulfil this calling if we remain so distinctive and aloof from those around us that we are untouched by them.  Nor can we, if we lose our distinctiveness and disappear.  The very quest of the Jewish people requires that we find a balance.  That, like ships navigating narrow straits, we stay in the channel.  And avoid the rocks and shoals close to both shores.  Because a ship on the rocks is of no use.  And a Jew who cannot serve as a witness to G-d’s presence, is effectively not a Jew.  There are always Jews who are more or less traditional in their outlook.  But as an entirely separate phenomenon, there are Jews who try to be more or less distinctive.  

          Let’s support one another as each one of us tried to find the channel between the rocks of aloofness on one hand, and of invisibility on the other.  Some days it seems that either extreme would be easier.  Either can be tempting at times.  But by taking either extreme, we fail to fulfil the prophecy:  By you shall humanity be blessed.  Shabbat shalom. 

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