Thursday, July 23, 2015

A Compelling Valedictory: A Reflection for Parashat Devarim, 24 July 2015

In America, there’s a tradition when a class graduates from high school.  The top-performing student, measured by their grades throughout the high school years, is designated Class Valedictorian.  And the second-best performing student is designated Class Salutatorian.  Both students are invited to speak at the Commencement Ceremony.
          (I always wondered why it was called a Commencement.  After all, the ceremony marks the completion of the student’s high school years, not their start.  It’s like the American custom of calling the main dish in a dinner, the entrée.  That word should designate the starters, if anything.  But I digress…)
          As you can imagine, Valedictorian and Salutatorian speeches vary as much as the students who delivery them.  Many of the honorees are happy to give a placid speech about the joy of memories and the joy of new beginnings.  But some feel compelled to use their limelight to say something controversial.  Something that is meant as a rebuke of their fellow students, the school administration, or society in general.  Obviously, the student who takes this third path, risks the ire of many present.  People don’t like to be rebuked…who does??!  But sometimes, when one is given a one-time opportunity to be heard by a large audience, it is hard to resist. 
          I have a colleague who was Valedictorian of his class, in Lafayette, Louisiana in the 1970’s.  He used his speech to rebuke the community for not moving with a full heart, from the racist ways of the Antebellum South.  Twenty years later I happened through the community and they were still talking about it.  His rebuke had surely fallen on some fertile ground of people who were happy to hear it, or who at least took it to heart.  But for others, he had opened a wound that remains festering to this day.  The main thing, though was that he didn’t craft the speech in the hopes of winning a popularity contest.  The Valedictorian is not chosen in a popular vote.  It is a strict accounting of grade-point-average.
In my weekly reflections as a Rabbi, I occasionally deliver a drash that could be accurately called, a rebuke.  It’s a perfectly valid use for a speech.  Of course, it’s important to balance rebuke with consolation and comfort.  Taking people outside their comfort zone is sometimes useful and even necessary.  But of course if people feel their Rabbi or other leader is ‘beating them up’ constantly, then their message will easily be lost.
          Moses, in the Book of Deuteronomy which we begin this Shabbat with Parashat Devarim, begins delivering a multi-part valedictory address to the people Israel.  His Swan Song.  Hashem has sentenced him to die before the conquest of the Land of Israel begins.  The reins of leadership will be passed to Joshua Bin Nun.  As you remember, Joshua was one of the Twelve Spies whom Moses sent to scout the Land, each one from a different tribe.  Joshua represented the Tribe of Ephraim, one of the two sons of Joseph, in the squad.  Joshua, and Caleb ben Yephunneh, the representative of the Tribe of Judah, were the only two spies who brought back a positive and encouraging report.  The other ten brought back a tale of gloom concerning the inhabitants of the Land.  They told the assembled people that they’d be better off returning to a life of servitude in Egypt, than trying to conquer the Land.  Joshua told Moses:  With G-d’s help, we can conquer it.
          So Moses, whether he thinks his fate is fair or not, has accepted his fate and is offering his farewell.  And there is some bitterness in his words.  Despite great triumphs along the way, his tone is that of a defeated man.  And that’s reasonable; the one prize that he had been aiming at these last 40 years is being denied him.
          So his valedictory address comes forward as a rebuke.  He reminds the people Israel of all the times they have sinned against Hashem during their years of wandering in the wilderness.  He’s not going let them off the hook, perhaps because he wishes to help propel his successor to success by goading the people to rally behind him and not rebel at the slightest turn of events.  As they did to Moses.
          It would be easy to accuse Moses of lacking faith.  Really, that’s the ostensible reason for his death before entering the Land of Israel.  Remember the pronouncement?  Because you struck the rock instead of obeying my instruction to call forth the waters.  Because Moses lacked the faith to carry out G-d’s instruction to the letter, he was judged unworthy to lead the people into the Land.  Perhaps.  Or perhaps Moses is just tired and worn-out from the responsibility, from the constant bickering and need to defend himself and G-d.  But if that were the case, why would his sentence be to not see the fulfilment of his dream?  About thi we can only speculate.

          So Moses delivers a valedictory that comes forth, at times, as a stunning rebuke.  He’s more worried that the people will learn from their mistakes, than that he, Moses, will be remembered fondly for the comfort and consolation he offered.  And that is the mark of a True Leader.  He’s concerned that his leadership will lead to good things.  More than his concern over the fondness, with which he’ll be remembered.  And the truth is that our tradition does not remember him in fondness.  Rather, we remember him in greatness.  As the Rambam stated some 24 centuries after Moses’ death:  All the Prophets are true.  And Moses is the greatest of them all.  Shabbat shalom.

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