Beware of Drama
A Drash for Parashat KorachFriday, 22 June 2012
Rabbi Don Levy
Last week I referred to the
phenomenon of us thinking that, while all of the Torah is good, some parts are
simply better than others. I admitted to
you that even I, as a rabbi, prefer certain parts. This certainly comes into play when assigning
portions for bar and bat mitzvahs.
I’ll never forget the first time I
helped prepare a for bar mitzvah a boy whose date determined that he would
read, and expound upon, this week’s portion:
Korach. Not only was this his
portion, his reading was from the very beginning of the portion. It was not the third triennial reading, the
one which we shall read tomorrow morning, the one about the tithe and the need
for the Levites to financially contribute despite their full-time service to
G-d and the nation. No, it was about the
rebellion against the authority of Moses by Korach, son of Kohat, a member of
the Tribe of Levi. Korach led a group of
dissidents in trying to usurp Moses’ leadership of the people Israel. For that, he and the other two leaders of his
rebellion were killed. G-d opened up the
earth, and it swallowed Korach, Datan and Abiram, and their respective
households.
The Death Penalty has developed a bad name in recent years, especially so when applied for religious reasons. How could it be otherwise??! The idea of putting someone to death for religious reasons, makes the contemporary mind question the very need for religion. Religious authorities have certainly been guilty of their excesses over the centuries. Most of the historical incidents of killing for religion have been committed by Christians and Muslims. Who can forget the Crusades, or the Spanish Inquisition? Or the Sword of Islam, sweeping across the European landscape? Not to mention the contemporary phenomenon of Worldwide Jihad. We Jews are conspicuously absent from perpetrating most of this bloodletting; most often we are its victims. The victim gets away feeling a certain self-righteousness. But in the narrative of Korach’s rebellion is a documentation of the murderous wrath of the G-d of Israel toward a group of rebels and their families.
So I asked the boy’s parents at the
very start of his bar mitzvah preparation:
Maybe you can change the date?
Maybe you can schedule it a week earlier, or a week later? Of course, the following week is Parashat Chukat, containing the
narrative of the Red Heifer. That one is
a bear to teach to a 12-year-old, for different reasons!
As it happened, there was no way for
the boy’s parents to change the date of his bar mitzvah, so I was stuck trying
to help him make sense of G-d killing Korach, Datan and Abiram…and their entire
families. I learned a lesson about the
ability of 12-year-olds to grasp difficult lessons, when pushed and cajoled
sufficiently…
“That was a gruesome way to die,” the
boy remarked to me as we finished reading the story.
“Do you think they deserved to die
that way?” I asked him.
He thought for a moment. “Maybe the
Torah means to tell us that, when people behave in certain ways, they cause lots
of people get hurt, even those closest to them.”
There was an immediately apparent
truth in what the boy was saying. People
behave in certain ways, and as a result more people get hurt. But what was unique about the ‘certain way’
the three rebels behaved, that they merited such a punishment for themselves
and their families? There had been many
challenges to Moses’ leadership. The
challenges started long before G-d instructed him to stand up to Pharaoh and
lead the people out of Egypt to the Promised Land. Moses really personified the figure of the
beleaguered leader. He was always being
challenged by members of his stubborn and individualistic people. Because of his vision and force of character
he always prevailed against the insurgencies.
So what was the unique nature of this
insurgency, that it occasioned such a response?
“What was the real nature of the
Korach rebellion?” I asked the boy. “What made it stand out among the different
challenges to Moses’ leadership?” And I led him on a tour through the Torah,
reading through the accounts of the various rebellions against Moses.
“This one really wasn’t about anything,” the boy finally proclaimed.
“I mean it was senseless. It was really
only drama.”
Drama. We all know that word. We
assign it to the actions of certain individuals, who seem to thrive on stirring
up one group against another. They do so
for no apparent purpose, other than because they can. If there’s a purpose
for the stirring up of drama, it is that the manipulation of people gives the
Drama Queen – or Drama King – a sense of power.
Usually the drama fills a need for power in a person who is really,
otherwise powerless.
The boy really opened my eyes. Korach’s rebellion was about nothing more
than the need of three individuals to create drama. They ached to be like Moses, who derived his
authority legitimately. Moses’
legitimacy was rooted in his calling from G-d.
But it was earned through his obedience to G-d, evidenced by his
overcoming his own sense of inadequacy and standing up to Pharaoh. Then, and again despite the sense of
inadequacy he keenly felt, he rallied the people Israel time and again, to lead
them through the wilderness and forge them into a strong and resolute people.
The challenge of Korach and his
followers was not to assert that Moses was doing anything wrong. It was not that he’d made any mistakes. It was not that they, the rebels, could do anything better than Moses. It was just asking, “Who placed him over us?” It was pure drama,
pitting a group of frightened people against a leader with whom they really
couldn’t find substantive fault.
For what they did, the three leaders
of the rebellion deserved to be punished severely. But what what had their families done, to deserve
being swallowed up by the earth?
Nothing. But my bar mitzvah
candidate nailed it.
“When people behave in certain ways,
they cause lots of people to get hurt, even those closest to them.”
Drama pits one person or group
against another, with no underlying purpose other than the need of the Drama
Person to create conflict to manipulate people. When one plays with fire, one gets
burned. But out-of-control
conflagrations cause much collateral damage.
Interpersonal drama leaves in its wake a trail of wounded souls. The Drama person, the manipulator seldom intends
to hurt the ones who bear the brunt of the damage. But that’s the way these things end up. Korach and his two accomplices surely didn’t
intend for their families to bear their punishment. Perhaps this whole sorry episode is the Torah’s
way of warning us?
In last week’s drash, I asserted that
the need for drama often makes us blow up solvable problems into insurmountable
ones. Of course, the context was marriage. Most troubled couples, who respond
to their issues with drama, do not in their heart of hearts want their marriages to fail. But their behavior accomplishes that very thing. Likewise, Korach and his followers didn’t
want their families to perish. Likewise
so many of those who create drama, and hurt those closest to them, they did not
intend to hurt anybody.
What’s the solution? As I’ve pointed out before, it begins with
self-awareness. Without recognizing that
we’re engaging in drama, we’re powerless to stop it. But once we do recognize that we are creating drama, then we can search our
souls and ask ourselves why. It’s not
easy. It takes a big person to admit when
they’re wrong, even if they’re just admitting it to themselves. But if you can come down the road far enough
to recognize that you’re creating senseless drama, I challenge you to take the
big step of sharing that self-awareness with someone you trust. In confidence with that person, you can try
to unveil your motivations. Then you can
work on them.
As I said, it isn’t easy. But it is essential. Even the biggest Drama People can probably
tell a war story or two about how they
were once hurt by someone else’s
penchant for drama. Maybe the earth didn’t
swallow you up, but chances are that you have been hurt at least once in your
life by someone who was busy manipulating individuals, creating drama, for
purposes that nobody will ever know and perceive. If so, do you have the courage to examine
your own heart of hearts and ask yourself if you haven’t also been guilty of
engaging in drama for some opaque purpose?
That’s the first step to controlling this strange impulse that often
seems to run like an epidemic in circles of friends, in families, in
workplaces, and yes, in religious congregations. It’s too late for Korach and his
cohorts. But its not too late for those of us in this room. We can understand this
lesson of the consequences of this rebellion.
We can see it as through the eyes of one very perceptive 12-year-old boy
whom I once had the pleasure to teach.
If so, then we can learn to behave differently before we cause such a result.
Everybody Shares the Burden
A Drash for Parashat Korach
Saturday, 23 June 2012
Rabbi Don Levy
Back in the 1980’s I lived in Greece for four years. I look back fondly upon that time. Greece was a lovely country with a mild
climate, beautiful islands and beaches and mountains. And the Greek people, despite decades of
being inundated by tourists, remained open and hospitable to visitors. They generally held an optimistic and relaxed
view of life. They always managed to find
time for one another, to sit and enjoy a coffee on a sunny afternoon while
catching up with a relative or friend.
Work? I can do it, avrio, maƱana,
tomorrow. The work will still need to be
done then. I’ll get around to it.
Greece has been in the news quite a
bit lately. It has not been in the news
because of its lovely beaches. But what
has put the country in the worldwide spotlight does have something to do with
its laid-back ethic. Greece has such a
high amount of foreign debt compared to its gross domestic product, that its
economy is threatening to implode. The
country needs to raise its productivity significantly before it defaults on its
massive debt. Its creditors have
demanded severe austerity measures as a condition of continued assistance.
I’m not here to single out Greece for
criticism. Greece is, as they say, the
Tip of the Iceberg. Greece simply
epitomizes what is happening worldwide. Following
not so far behind are other debt-laden economies. The fear is that, if Greece falls, other
countries will not be far behind. All of
Europe, and America – really, most of the developed world – is wrestling with
the issue of how to raise productivity and lessen per capita debt, to save
their economies from oblivion. What they
are facing, is the end of the Welfare State as we know it.
From the ashes of the Second World
War arose the concept of the modern Welfare State. After the war’s conclusion, an incredible
prosperity descended upon the Western World.
It first benefitted those countries whose infrastructure and industrial
bases had not been significantly damaged in the war. After that, thanks in no small part to the
American Marshall Plan, the ruined economies of Western Europe recovered and
went into high gear, bringing them prosperity.
One byproduct of all this go-go economic well-being was that the Western
Democracies could afford to build social safety nets to ensure their citizens’
well-being should misfortune come upon them individually.
The Welfare State is a wonderful
thing; the idea is altruistic at its core.
And, as long as the economy remains in high gear there is enough cash to
sustain it. In times of severe worldwide
recession, such as we have been enduring since about 2008, it simply cannot be
sustained.
Australia, as I’ve come to understand, has managed to
avoid the worst of the current economic recession. This, thanks in part to its abundant natural
resources, and perhaps also thanks to its distance from Europe and America. But there’s apparently enough suffering to go
around, even here in this Lucky Country.
As I understand it even here, there is a sense that some increased
austerity is necessary. Not as much as
Greece and other European countries are being forced to swallow. But enough to make many citizens feel the pinch.
The flaw in the modern Welfare State
is not in the idea that every citizen deserves a decent life. It is not in the notion that decent housing,
nutritious food, good health care and a worthwhile job are things that
everybody should enjoy. It is not in the
proposition that a strong safety net should be in place to lift up the
fallen. The Welfare State’s flaw is in
its role in the killing of personal initiative.
It is in the replacement of individual responsibility with the culture
of entitlement.
The portion of Torah which I read this morning provides the antithesis to the culture of
entitlement. In Israel’s being
constituted as a nation, it has a collective responsibility for the maintenance
of the Mishkan, the sanctuary that provides the nexus between G-d and the
people. Each of the tribes of Israel is
allotted a portion of the land which they are about to conquer. That land will be further apportioned to the
families of the respective tribes. In
that way, each family will have the means to earn a living. But the members of the tribe of Levi shall
not be apportioned any land.
Instead, the Levites shall be
assigned the responsibility of operating the Mishkan and its infrastructure for
the offering of sacrifices to G-d who has so blessed the nation. This is an awesome responsibility. I pointed out three weeks ago, in my drash on
Parashat Naso, that they faced death should they not correctly discharge their
duties. This is the full-time
occupation, the ‘family business’ of the Levites. They are not to be farmers, dairymen,
carpenters or farriers. Their economic
needs will be met by the tithe, the ma’aser.
Each Israelite family is to bring a tenth of its increase – a tithe, or
ma’aser – to the Levites to sustain them in performing the vital service for
which G-d has chosen them. Each
Israelite has a share in the nation’s merit.
But this is not an entitlement.
It comes from each family’s participation in the grand enterprise. It comes from the tithe, the goods that are
brought to the Levites to enable them to live while performing their unique
service.
The tithe is, of course, the first
historical precedent for the Flat Tax.
Everyone must ante up the same percentage. But of course that means that the less
success one enjoys, the less one is liable.
The more one succeeds, the more one is liable. It sounds quite fair to me – this in a world
where so much is un-fair. But I digress…
So what about the Levites? They carried a very heavy load. The well-being of the entire nation was upon
their shoulders. As we read
this morning, the Levites “shall bear their iniquity” – that is to say,
that of the entire people. All this
under the threat of death, should they fail in their very exacting duties. One would think that would be enough, but it
wasn’t. The Levites were also required
to give a tenth of what they received – a tithe of a tithe – as an offering to
the G-d whom they served on behalf of the Jewish people.
From this portion we learn that
everybody gives to the common enterprise in accordance with their ability to
give. Those who earn little, give
little. But no-one is exempt. Even those whose full-time occupation is the
service that makes everything possible must also present a tenth of what they
take in.
Of course having said this, I realize
I’m opening the door to expectations as to my participation in the next temple
fund-raiser. But that’s not a problem;
I’ll step through that door…
So the ideal presented here, in the
Book of Numbers, is that each of us bears responsibility for that, which
benefits the entire community. Nobody is
exempt. Each of us must participate
proportionately. To those who might
choose – or be chosen for – a life of service, a financial contribution is
still expected. It seems the antithesis
of the modern tax system that rewards certain behaviors by offering tax
advantages. And it is definitely the
antithesis of the culture of entitlement.
Let’s lift one another up and help one another in times of
misfortune. To the extent that it
doesn’t impede the economy or bankrupt the treasury, let’s provide a safety net
for those in temporary misfortune, especially if their circumstances are due to
no fault of their own. But let’s work to
erase the culture of entitlement, the mindset that all is owed me, by virtue of
my being here. This is a contemporary
problem that seems to have been anticipated in the Torah.
The ancient Israelites knew that each
person was responsible for bringing G-d’s favor upon the nation. In the same way, let us always keep in mind
that the strength of the collective is in the contributions of each of its
members. This holds true in the economy
of the nation. It holds equally true in
the well-being of the congregation.
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