Thursday, November 14, 2013

...All Others, We Monitor! A Drash for Parashat Vayigash, Saturday 16 November 2013

NSA Headquarters, Ft G G Meade Maryland
An agency of the US Government, for which I used to work, has been in the news a lot lately.  It is called the NSA.  The initials stand for ‘National Security Agency.’  The NSA is an agency so secretive that, until recently, most Americans did not even know of its existence.  Everybody knew the name and the identity of the CIA, the Central Intelligence Agency, which is much maligned in books, media and film.  The evil, or at least bumbling, CIA field officer is almost a trope in espionage and military story-telling.  The CIA is a ‘villain’ that we love to hate.  But until recently, the NSA had managed to stay largely out of the public eye.  Its mission is signals intelligence:  electronic snooping.  Nothing particularly exciting or glamorous about that.
In 1982 James Bamford published a book exposing the NSA, called The Puzzle Palace.  Bamford had been a military cryptologist briefly, during the Vietnam War, before going on to earn a law degree and then working as an investigative reporter.  The book’s title is an affectionate nickname by which NSA employees used to call their agency.  Nowadays, they just call it ‘The Fort.’
The book was a mild success.  It was a popular joke at the time that more copies were sold to employees of the NSA, and military personnel stationed there, than to the general public.  That’s because the NSA was so secretive, and so compartmented, that most of us who worked there lacked much of a ‘big picture’ of what the agency did.
The agency is now far more familiar worldwide thanks to the recent disclosures by Edward Snowdon who continues to hide from prosecution in Russia.  I think that the US government shouldn’t pressure the Russians to give him up.  Spending the rest of one’s lifetime as a ‘guest’ of the Russian government seems like a far more onerous prospect than a period as a ‘guest’ of the US Department of Justice.  I haven’t spent time in Russia, but I did work for the DOJ as a prison chaplain.  Trust me on this one!
So now many of the NSA’s once-shadowy operations are laid bare for the world to see, and the world is not happy about it.  A revelation that has caused particular consternation among US allies is that the NSA routinely monitors the mobile phones of world leaders.  The Germans were recently in a tizzy about the prospect that Premier Angela Merkel’s mobile might have been one of them.
Reaction in Israel was much more sanguine.  Meh!  Who cares!  Countries monitor one another!  I laughed when I read that, because I used to monitor Israeli communications for the NSA.  People who knew, would ask me if I was conflicted on my job, but I wasn’t.  As we used to blithely say:  In God we trust…all others, we monitor.  And yes, even Israel!
In this week’s Torah portion, we see Jacob behaving in a similar spirit.  Returning to Canaan after a 14-year absence, he has sent spies ahead.  As we remember, when he went to Haran he was fleeing his brother’s wrath.  And Esau had every reason to be of a fratricidal mindset, given that Jacob had twice connived to get what belonged to Esau by birthright.  The spies reported back that Esau was coming out to meet Jacob, with 400 men accompanying him.  Tradition understands that this represented specifically a military formation:  Esau was coming to meet his brother with malevolent intent.  And Jacob clearly understood this as well, immediately taking as he did a defensive posture.
Jacob greets Esau
Jacob has grown and matured during his exile in Haran, his servitude to his father-in-law, and his ‘acquisition’ of two wives and starting a large family.  He still has his flaws, but he has learned to trust in God.
He has also learned that he must make peace with his brother.  As difficult as it will be, he must march up to his brother and take the initiative that might make it possible for them to live in the same land.  He knows that he is supposed to live and raise his family in the Promised Land.  He understands that it is God’s will that his progeny will inherit this land.  And he knows that the only way to make this happen, is to make peace with Esau.  Whom he fears.
So he sends spies to scope out Esau’s intent.  Because he trusts God.  But all others, he monitors.
Told unequivocally of Esau’s murderous intent, Jacob realises that he must nevertheless complete the assignation and face his brother.  But he cannot trust him.  So he assumes a defensive posture.  And then he makes exaggerated gestures of obeisance to Esau.  Because again, the fulfilment of his destiny requires it.  But he’s not trusting Esau.  For all his faults, Jacob is not an utter fool.
So he meets Esau and greets him deferentially.  And then he deflects Esau’s suggestions that the two proceed together.  He manages to diplomatically demur from the escort, fearing that it will ultimately lead to an ambush.  Because he trusts in God.  But all others, and especially his brother with whom his relationship has been problematic, he holds at arm’s length.
It’s an important lesson for us to learn.  We should make peace with our enemies.  We should keep the peace with our friends.  But we should never be embarrassed to hold people at arm’s length, at least until we have strong evidence that their intent is only positive and beneficial.  And this is a difficult lesson to learn. 
Just the other day, I opened up to someone and then later regretted it.  It doesn’t matter who, or what the subject was.  I simply let my guard down, and the result was not positive.  Most of us do this all the time.  We fundamentally want to be able to trust people completely.  And we believe that not trusting people indicates some kind of character flaw on our part.  So we open ourselves to undesired result by trusting people more than we should.  Even when, in the back of our mind, we sense that the person is not a complete ally.  But we treat them so, in the hope that they will be so.
Jacob has clearly learnt this lesson.  He has learnt it, in part from his own behaviour.  He, himself has not acted in a trustworthy manner, and as a result he hurt his brother.  And he has also been on the receiving end of trickery, from his father-in-law.  So he has learnt this important lesson.  He must make peace with Esau.  But that doesn’t mean he must trust Esau.  All reason argues against that idea.

Let us also learn this lesson.  Love your neighbour.  Assume good intent on his part when there’s no evidence to the contrary.  But don’t be embarrassed to hold him at arm’s length until you’re really sure.  It does not help to unnecessarily open yourself to being somehow hurt.  The next time, you’ll hold the person at far more than arm’s length.  Trust in God.  All others, view with just a drop of healthy cynicism.  Shabbat shalom.

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