The Song in
our Hearts
A Drash for Friday,
25 January 2013
A few weeks
ago I jokingly told you about the trauma I experienced when I realised that I
was addicted to songs that come under the rubric of ‘oldies.’ Oldies for the old, right? Lots of things conspire to make us aware –
sometimes painfully aware – of the passage of time. Our preference in music is one of those
things. The songs that formed the
soundtrack to our lives at that time of self-discovery, usually remain the
preferred soundtrack to our later years as well. Not long ago, I attended a party where the
main attraction was karaoke. It wasn’t
surprising that I did not recognise the songs that the younger performers
chose. Nor that they looked on with
blank faces when I sang It Was a Very Good Year, written by Ervin Drake
and made famous by Frank Sinatra in the 1960’s.
But even though there is a
generational disconnect between choices of songs, each one of us goes through
life with a song on our hearts. Some
time ago, I was listening to one of my favourite commentators on contemporary
life, Dennis Prager. A caller asked him
if he could imagine a different life than the one he’d built. He thought a moment before answering. This is a man who is nationally known in the
USA, and fairly well known worldwide thanks to internet streaming of
radio. He lectures around the world, in
English Russian and Hebrew. He writes
columns and books that are widely read.
A few years ago, he was spoken of as a possible candidate for the US
Senate. And a caller asked him if he
could imagine a different life.
His answer was telling. He responded that he was happy with his life
but that nothing in it was essential.
Except two things. One was
religious faith. Prager is a Jew, a
Progressive Jew, and a proud one. He
could imagine himself belonging to another religion had the circumstances of
his birth been different. But he could
not imagine not being religious at all. He
can respect and even appreciate another person’s faith, but he cannot imagine a
life for himself that lacks faith. And
the other thing in his life, which he could not imagine being without, was
music. Prager is not an accomplished
musician, but he is an educated consumer of music. He plays interesting and edgy music on his
radio program. His tastes are
far-ranging and eclectic. And he can’t
imagine a life in which he is denied the pleasure of music.
I think that describes many of
us. Most of you in this room tonight are
not accomplished musicians. You may have
played an instrument sometime during your lives. But the process of making music – of daily
practice to keep your technique fresh and to learn new songs – is not on your
menu. Nevertheless, in ways that are
probably not always foremost in your consciousness, you have a song on your
hearts. At certain moments, in certain
moods, it will come bursting to the forefront.
For some, it’s when they’re in the shower. For some, it’s when driving alone in the
car. Ever seen people singing along with
their car radios? Singing with wild
abandon in the privacy of their automobiles?
At least until they stop for a traffic signal and cars all around them
stop and their occupants stare at the one singing? Maybe you’ve seen drivers like that. Maybe you’ve been a driver like that!
I’m also not an accomplished musician, although I probably ‘play’ at it
more than most. Of course, I’ve been using
the ukulele as part of my pulpit persona for some time. Recently, I’ve been seeking out for the first
time, opportunities to play uke in groups.
Clara and I played with one such group this week, and it was delightful. There’s just something incredibly happy about
a group of ‘normal’ people, people like you and me, strumming little instruments
and singing with abandon.
This Shabbat is known as Shabbat Shira, the Sabbath of the Song. That’s
because this week’s Torah portion is Beshallach,
which contains the Song of the
Sea. It’s the song that Moses and the
children of Israel sang at their salvation when the sea allowed them of pass
and to flee Pharaoh’s chariots pursuing them.
It’s the song whose climax we sing when we sing, at each and every
service, Mi chamocha ba’elim
Adonai. I hope you’ll come tomorrow to hear it sung,
with a melody you probably have never heard, by Clara.
The point is that the children
of Israel, when rescued at the waters of the Sea of Reeds, could have reacted a
number of ways. And the way they reacted
was to break into song. And this does
not surprise us. After all, even if you
are not one given to singing in the shower, or whilst driving your car, you
certainly understand the importance of having a song in your lives.
In some ways, that song that plays over and
over in our hearts defines us. And each
person’s song is unique. Even if I and
someone else are signing the same song, we are singing it each in our own way,
with our own special lilt to it. And
with our own unique evocation of memories and emotions. This is what makes music so special. In hearing a song, each one of us has the
capacity to make it our own.
The Song of the Sea, the
unique song found in the fifteenth chapter of the Book of Exodus, is the song
of our distant ancestors when they experienced deliverance from Pharaoh and
Egyptian bondage. It is a song the
expresses the joy of a people freed to realise their potential. They don’t yet know what that potential will
be. They have no idea of how their
collective story will unfold. But they
know that the journey has begun. The song,
at least a portion of it, remains part of our soundtrack even today.
When the Dreamworks film The Prince of Egypt came out in 1998, I took my children to see
it. When parts of the Jewish story make
it into the general culture, I – like many of you – feel a certain pride. I remember sitting in the theatre watching
the movie, and thinking ‘That’s my
story.’ And then came the song When You Believe, which later won an academy award and was
especially well-known after its being recorded by Mariah Carey and Whitney
Houston sent it soaring on the charts.
I have a confession to make; I’ve
been known to cry at movies. So it wasn’t
unprecedented that, during the song When
You Believe, I cried. Hopefully my children didn’t notice…but they
probably did. And
especially was a blubbering when, in the middle of the song, a child began the
refrain:
Ashira Ladonai, ki ga’o ga’a. Ashira Ladonai ki ga’o ga’a
Mi chamocha ba’elim Adonai. Mi Kamocha Nedar Bakodesh.
Each one of us has his or her
song in their head. And there will be
times when that song will come out, either from one’s own mouth or from someone
else’s. And when it does, and one can
share one’s song with the world, that’s something of extraordinary beauty. That, I think, is why so many of us enjoy
following American Idol and its spin-offs, reality shows where ‘ordinary’
people are given an opportunity to share their songs with the world.
Because those songs define
us. And if we reach a point where the
song is no longer in our heart, then we’ve lost something very precious. So sing away in the shower. Or in the car…even at red lights! Or at a karaoke night. Or at any opportunity. Because each person’s song is precious. Shabbat shalom.
Refugees trying to reach Australia |
Strangers in the Wilderness
A Drash for Saturday, 26
January 2013
I joked a few months back,
that I remain addicted to closely following politics in my home country, the
USA, for a number of reasons. And one
primary reason is that the political show here in Australia seems tame – and therefore
boring – by comparison. And if you heard
my comments as a criticism then, or hear criticism now, please don’t! True, boring is not complimentary. But sometimes boring is good. Look at the USA, which has lurched along from
one political crisis to another during recent months. The latest one involves Secretary of State
Hillary Clinton banging the table like a petulant child under examination by
members of Congress. But the last crisis, the one over a combination of legislation and executive order
to curb the circulation of guns after the most recent mass killing, has not yet
wound down. And still looming is the
fight over the debt ceiling. My crazy
country provides no small amount of political theatre for the drama-starved
masses around the world.
Here in Australia, apart from
the ongoing Julia-and-Tony Show of constant barb-throwing, the biggest ongoing public
policy drama seems to focus on the question of refugees. How should they be received? Where
should they be received? How do we separate the real refugees from those who simply don’t want to wait their turn? What kind of reception do they get when they
finally are allowed to live in Australia?
I ask all these as separate questions, because they are indeed separate
questions even if they are all part of the greater question of how a country
receives newcomers.
In this morning’s Torah
reading, the Song of the Sea, the children of Israel are depicted as breaking
out into ecstatic song upon their deliverance at the Sea of Reeds. In their intense joy over their final break
from Egypt, they cannot know what sort of challenges await them. They can only know that they have been freed
from involuntary servitude in a ‘narrow’ place and are entering the expansive
wilderness of their potential.
In the wilderness, the
children of Israel will be on their own, except for God who will provide for
their needs in ways they cannot yet know.
They will experience many tests of their faith in their ultimate
destiny. Many will be the times when
they will implore Moses to just let them return to Egypt. There, while they lacked freedom and
security, they at least had some measure of predictability in their lives. That
brings a certain amount of
comfort. But Moses, despite his periodic
frustration with his people, stands fast and leads the people up to their
entrance to the Promised Land. And then
Joshua, his chosen successor, takes over.
After their grand exit from Egypt, in fits and starts and with a 40-year
delay, the people find their way to the Land of Israel where they begin to live
out their destiny.
Along the way, others seek to
hamper them. Amalek attacks them from
the rear, a cowardly attack that serves as the leitmotiv for all cowardly
behaviour by nations forevermore. But
they fight off adversity and find their way to their land.
This is our shared story as Jews. We repeat it every year. Every Shabbat as we read our way through the
Torah, the story unfolds. We act it out
during our Passover Seders, as we shall in two months’ time. Because we continue to repeat it, it has become
part of who we are. The aspect of Jews
as refugees is almost unavoidable.
Of course, we don’t need to
look all the way beck to Egypt to remember the experience of being a
refugee. Most of the people in this room
came to Australia as refugees after the Second World War, or they are children
of those who came then. And what about
those who came more recently, as they no longer felt secure in their homes in
South Africa? They probably didn’t meet
the definition of ‘Refugee’ used by the UN or by the Australian Government, but
they still felt the sting of uprooting themselves from all that was comfortable
and predictable. So Jews, including the
Jews of Australia, know how it feels to be a refugee.
The current controversy over
refugees is extremely complicated.
I’m sure that, if I polled the Jews in this room, I would hear quite a
variety of opinions as to whether the current crop of refugees even deserve the
name, or the status. But I think you
would all agree that everybody who comes to live on these shores should be able
to build a life here in dignity and security.
One of the complaints I heard most often about those who come here as
refugees, is their inability – or perhaps unwillingness – to integrate into Australian
society. We want them to not just live in Australia, but to become
Australian. And whether we think individually that
certain members of the refugee ‘class’ should have that status or not, we
probably all agree that it is good for them, and good for all of us if they are able to navigate the shoals of life in their new country.
And that’s what I want to address
this morning. Some weeks back, I
expressed a desire for us as a congregation to do some good works together in
the sphere of interfaith relations. I
asked for your ideas about how we might contribute. I have to be honest; I did not get a lot of
feedback from you. This is not a
criticism – you’re clearly looking to me for leadership. But as a newcomer myself, I’ve felt rather
clueless about how we as a congregation might chip in.
But I finally did get some feedback and, coming as it did shortly before Australia Day
weekend, it resonated immediately.
One of our members has
suggested that we pool our talents to provide some kind of assistance for new
residents, especially refugees. To
provide advice and assistance with figuring out how to live in Australia. How to be marketable in one’s job
search. How to find the best education
for one’s children. How to protect one’s
best interests legally. How to figure
out what government entitlements one is due, and how to get them. How to master the subtleties of the English language. These folks face so many different
challenges.
If we remember our own history
as refugees, we might feel some measure of identification with these
newcomers. If we remember how alone we
might have felt when we came to Australia, or how our parents may have
felt. About the heaving saga of Jewish
refugees, wandering the earth for a secure place. In their exit from Egypt. In the various exiles that came after
that. To be a refugee, and an outsider,
and a newcomer, is something that each one of us carried around as part of our
baggage. While each of us might have a
different opinion on public policy, we can all empathise with the refugee on a
personal level.
That we read The Song of the
Sea on Australia Day Weekend is a pleasant convergence. It’s an opportunity for a nexus between this
chapter in the Jewish story with the unfolding story of Australia, which each
one of us have made our home. And it is
an opportunity to reflect on ways that we, as individuals and as a congregation,
might help the latest newcomers to Australia to overcome the challenges of
being a refugee, a stranger, a newcomer.
I am therefore offering this for your consideration on this
Shabbat. If you have thoughts or ideas
as to how we can do this, please don’t hesitate to talk to me about it. During the coming weeks, I’ll be putting
heads together with you who are concerned about this issue and would like to
help. Let’s make Australia Day about
more than picnics and parties. Let’s use
it as an impetus for pooling our talents and resources to do some good as a
congregation. Maybe by Passover, we will
have a concrete plan as to how we can contribute. Think about it and talk to me soon. Shabbat shalom.
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