Finding Meaning in Adversity
A Drash for Shabbat Pinchas
Friday, 13 July 2012
Rabbi Don Levy
There’s
a delightful joke that I’ll risk telling – the risk being that it doesn’t
‘translate’ culturally for an Australian congregation. Here goes.
There
was a small Baptist church in the American Heartland – what you would call ‘the
Outback’ and what we snobs from one of America’s two coasts like to refer as
‘Flyover Country.’ You know, the parts of the country one flies over when travelling
from one to another of the places that ‘matter.’
So
this church was one of those old fashioned timber buildings. It was growing old and was weather-beaten and
badly needed new paint. The pastor, an
ageing man serving an ageing congregation, announced before the collection one
Sunday that that day’s offering was specifically to buy what was necessary to
paint the church. But when the money was
counted, the pastor knew it wasn’t enough to buy sufficient paint to cover the
entire building.
After
fretting about the situation for some time, the pastor bought as much paint as
he could. He thinned the paint with
water to stretch it. He painted the
building. Working all day, going up and
down the ladder continually, he managed to finish the job. The thinned paint managed to cover the entire
building. He went to sleep, exhausted,
and woke up the next morning.
There
had been a rainstorm during the night.
When the pastor stepped out of his parsonage to walk the few steps to
the church, he was aghast to see that the thinned paint had run in the storm
and was largely washed off the building.
The
pastor fell on his knees and prayed. He
asked G-d repeatedly what he should do.
Suddenly, a voice came out of the heavens. It said:
Repaint, and thin no more!
Repaint, and thin no more! It was the logical answer, because after all,
this is the bottom line in every Christian sermon, preached from every
Christian pulpit on every Sunday – and on Wednesday evening, for those
Christians who can’t get enough on Sunday.
Repaint, and thin no more! That is to say: Repent,
and sin no more!
Okay,
I hope you understand that I’m being humorous here. As least I’m trying to be humorous. I’m
not at all contemptuous of my Christian neighbours and the message of their
religion. Even if it were true that the
bottom line of every Christian sermon was repent
and sin no more, what would be so terrible about that? An unhappy truth is that we – humanity –
spread a lot of suffering around in the world because we ‘sin’ – we behave
badly toward one another. Repent and sin no more is, in nutshell,
the theme of Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the Jewish year…get your tickets
now!
So
if every Christian sermon has the same bottom line – and I can’t really say that it does – that’s not a
bad thing at all. But in Judaism, things
are a little more complex. We have all
kinds of sermons, with all kinds of bottom lines, and I’m guessing that you’ve
heard just about every kind delivered from this pulpit. There are midrashic sermons. Mystical sermons. Political sermons. Movie and book review sermons.
If
you’ve been following my pulpit speaking, you’re by now aware that I tend to
stick to sermons of the most basic kinds.
I’m not against giving a political sermon, but Levy’s First Commandment
is: Thou
shalt preach a political sermon no more frequently than once a year. It usually takes me that long to recover the
good will of the people I offend when I give a political sermon. Besides, there doesn’t seem to be too much in
Australian politics that is sermon-worthy.
I mean. Let’s face it: your
politics here are rather plain vanilla! Maybe
that’s because I’m too new here to catch a lot of the subtleties. Perhaps in a couple of years’ time I’ll feel
confident enough to try to sermonize on them.
But then we’re back to Levy’s First Commandment!
The
type of sermons, from which I really shy away are the last category – movie and
book reviews. Want movie reviews? Get on the wold wide web and search for
‘Rotten Tomatoes.’ Or try the site ‘IMDB
– Internet Movie Data Base.’ In either place, you can read movie reviews to
your heart’s content. Want book
reviews? Amazon.com is chock full of
them. The New York Times will give you more professionally-crafted
ones. I could probably write a movie or
book review well enough to be useful if I had a good reason to do so. However, I’m guessing it would not make a
compelling reason for you to attend services here on a Friday evening.
So
I don’t give reviews…but I do sometimes
give recommendations. And tonight, I’d like to offer a quick
recommendation for an unknown book by an unknown author. I’ve just finished reading the book, and it
resonated very deeply with me. The book
is I Was Young and I Wanted to Live by
David Huban. It’s not an easy book to
find; nobody in the Land of Oz seems to have a copy for sale. I happened into it because the author is the cousin
of Marika Maselli, one of our members here.
Marika loaned me a copy of the book to read. It is a journal of one young man’s experience
in the Shoah, the Nazi Holocaust that
engulfed Europe between the 1930’s and 1945, when World War II ended.
Marika’s
cousin, David – his original Hungarian name was Denes – embodied the ordinariness that I talked about at my
induction sermon a couple of weeks ago.
He was not a brilliant scholar.
He was not a world-class athlete.
He had no outward talent or quality that would make one predict that he
was the one in thousands who would survive while others perished. No, he was just an ordinary man, with an
extra-ordinary will to live. He was young, and he wanted to live. He looked at the lot he’d been dealt in life. To come of age as a Jew in Europe during a
time that has few parallels in the world’s history. And he wanted
to live. So badly did he want to
live, that he had the will to overcome the same adversity that sapped the will
to live of so many others.
In
the late 1930’s the Nazi restrictions against Jews arrived in young David’s
small town in Slovakia. The town had
originally been in Hungary until after World War I. As a teenager, he faced a big world that
didn’t want a part of him. A world that
preferred him dead. A world that looked
upon him, a young man who happened to be Jewish by birth, with scorn and
loathing. But David Huban was not about
to accept the death sentence that the world had pronounced upon him.
Has
anybody here ever attended a dying parent or other relative? If you have, maybe you watched them fight
death. Perhaps they fought for a long
time. And then, suddenly they stopped
fighting. If you were there at that
moment in a person’s life, you knew it.
You could see it in their eyes, in their face. When that person lost the will, the fight to
live, they died. Not that there’s anything
wrong with that. Death is, after all
simply part of life. Guess what? We’re all going to die. Surprise!
May it come for each of us, only at the end of a long, happy and
productive life, and with little pain or suffering. Amen.
David
Huban looked at the world around him, at people his age and younger dying for
no reason save the hate toward them that was being spewed about. And he made a choice. I’m
going to live. He fought to live. Through the months in concentration camps. Through harrowing encounters. He didn’t live because he was extraordinarily
heroic. Or clever. He was actually both: heroic and
clever. But that’s not why he lived.
He
lived because he chose to live. He chose to live. He had to
live if he was to fulfil his promise to his parents. As he ran for his life to the Hungarian
border when the Slovakian Nazi collaborators.
He promised his parents that he would survive. He promised that he would return. Unfortunately,
his parents did not. But that’s another
story…
The
message from I Was Young and Wanted to
Live, then, is a simple message. One
that resonates with a simple man like me.
It is this. We can complain all
we like about our lot. Or we can decide
to overcome, and thrive. To live.
As this one extra-ordinarily ordinary Jewish teenager did, when his
world collapsed around him.
So
now it’s Shabbat. Shabbat sets in here,
in our part of the world, earlier than in most of the rest of the world. As it does, let us celebrate life. Let us lay aside whatever may have been troubling
us over the last six days. Let us decide
to live. To overcome adversities small
and large. To live, and to make our
lives count. Shabbat shalom!
Finding Meaning in a ‘Lost’ Ritual
A Drash for Parashat Pinchas
Saturday, 14 July 2012
Rabbi Don Levy
I sometimes joke that during the period
of about three weeks starting with the first of Tishri, we Jews easily succumb
to ‘Religion Fatigue.’ Starting with
Rosh Hashanah and ending with Shmini Atzeret/Simchat Torah, with Yom Kippur and
Sukkot in between. We have what amount
to four major festival days of obligation.
Each has its own theme, its own feel, and its own rituals. Its own joys.
To miss any one of them, to let it pass by without celebrating or
observing it, is to miss an opportunity for a wonderful and meaningful
occasion. So why would one ignore one of these major festivals? Religion
Fatigue. We get tired of coming to the synagogue, tired of seeing the same people yet again, tired of ‘being good.’ Tired of the rabbi’s sermons. Tired of re-organizing our daily and
weekly routines to fit the once-per-year marathon of festivals.
It’s ‘worse’ in Orthodox and
Conservative Judaism, you know! They
still double the days of the festivals.
This is a holdover from the ancient times when word of the sighting of
the New Moon in Jerusalem could not quickly reach diaspora communities. At the same time, astronomical calculations
were not so precise as today. A New Moon
could be predicted only within a span of two days. So outside of the Land of Israel, when the
New Moon in Jerusalem determined the exact times to observe the festivals, they
were done for two days to make sure the community observed it on the correct
day, which would be one of the two. Why,
after all would the community want to risk inadvertently transgressing G-d’s
law by observing the festival on the wrong day?
The second day was a safeguard against that possibility.
Fast forward to the Nineteenth
Century. Removal of the second day of
festivals was one of the first reforms enacted within the movement which came
to be known as Reform Judaism, the spiritual forebear of our Progressive
Judaism. The reformers realized they
didn’t need the second day to make sure the congregation would get the ‘right’
day. By that time, the science of
astronomical calculation had advanced to where the New Moon could be predicted
years in advance, and very precisely. At
the same time, it was noted that the second days of festivals were often
burdensome to members of the community who had a pay check to earn, a business
to run, a profession to practice. Going
back to the period in Tishri, it meant four days of lost work – and four days
when one must knock off somewhat early to prepare. This, rather than eight days plus lost in most years.
Since we’re not reclusive and must function in the greater world, it
made perfect sense.
The more traditionalist versions of Judaism
retained the second day. The rationale
was that, even if it is no longer a necessary step to make sure we observe the
correct day, it is after all a
tradition! Additionally, as my Orthodox
colleagues like to say, we’re not living in the Land of Israel. We therefore need the extra spiritual lift
that the extra day provides. Want to see
how many Jews think they need an additional day’s ‘spiritual lift’? Attend an Orthodox congregation on the second
day of Rosh Hashanah. They’ll be glad you did; you’ll help
them to make a minyan, since most of their members are not present after the first day.
But before you accuse me of criticising
Orthodox Judaism, understand that that is not my intent here. I’m only making a statement about us Jews and
our lack of sitzfleisch. We can only sit in shul so many hours. We get
Religion Fatigue. This fact transcends
‘denominational’ lines!
In this morning’s reading from Parashat Pinchas, I read of the sacrifices
to be offered in the Mishkan, the
portable sanctuary, for weekdays, Sabbaths and New Moons. When King Solomon built the Beit Mikdash, the permanent Temple on
Mount Zion, the rituals until-then associated with the Mishkan were transferred to that
venue. When the Beit Mikdash was destroyed, these sacrifices went away…at least
until sometime in the future when the Temple may be rebuilt. Most of us in this room this morning are not
waiting ‘with bated breath’ for that to happen.
Even the great Rambam, Moses Maimonides who lived in the 12th
century and died in 1204 of the Common Era did not. He suggested that the cultus of priests and
sacrifices was a transitionary phase. He
thought it was intended to take us from ancient pagan worship to the ‘pure’ ‘sacrifice
of the heart’ – prayer and worship as we know it. But that’s another sermon, for another day…
Since we no longer offer the kinds of
sacrifices detailed in today’s reading, how are we to benefit from this reading? Obviously, in a historical context. Our reading of it connects us to what our
distant ancestors did, even if we’re no longer doing it.
Our ancestors celebrated joyously when
the New Moon appeared. Most of us today,
if we’re not fishermen or farmers, barely notice the cycles of the moon. They have very little to do with our
day-to-day reality in our mechanized, hermetically-sealed worlds. Not so our ancient forebears. In the pagan times that predated the
development of the worship of the One G-d – the religion that came to be known
as Judaism – the people were thankful for the appearance of the New Moon. It meant that the light that brought a
certain comfort in the night was not going to be snuffed out. The appearance of the New Moon gave them
renewed hope that life would continue.
Although the era of Torah took away that
fear that the waning moon heralded the end of the world, we know that old
habits die hard. So the Torah commanded
offerings of thanksgiving upon the appearance of the New Moon. As the message of Torah began to really sink
in, the reason for celebrating the New Moon shifted. All the festivals are calculated by the
appearance of the New Moon. Therefore,
each New Moon’s appearance heralds the coming of the festive days that will
occur in that month.
There are no festive days in the month that
will begin with the appearance of the New Moon on this coming Friday. The New Moon that we just announced before we
put the Torah away. This will be the New
Moon of Av. Av is the month on whose
ninth day we observe a fast for a string of tragedies that have befallen the
Jewish people on the same date in various years of history. The Ninth of Av – Tish B’Av – occurs on the 29th of July this year. But more about that next week.
So Rosh
Chodesh – the New Moon festival – helps to being us a sense of Chadash – newness – as we mark the
passage of time. The Jewish calendar is
like life itself – joyous occasions alternating with sad occasions. Together they form the rhythm that is the
cycle of the year – the cycle of our lives.
Celebration of Rosh Chodesh has fallen
into obscurity in much of the Jewish world today. But there are progressive congregations that
have reclaimed it. In many places it has
been re-invented as specifically a women’s holiday. Why so?
For reasons that I need not get into, cycles of the month are seem as
symbolic of women’s reality. When Aaron
and the people Israel were sinning by putting their precious metals together to
craft the Golden Calf, the women of Israel steadfastly refused to willingly
give up their gold ornaments. At least,
there is a Midrash that informs us of this.
Now, if you ask me, I don’t think the women were so afraid of sin…I
think they were just unwilling to give up their jewellery! But be that as it may. From this narrative tradition, and the
symbolic connection of monthly cycles with the female body, comes a custom. The custom is to declare Rosh Chodesh a
‘women’s holiday,’ a day when women are not obligated to do any work and when
they can relax and celebrate. Many
congregations have created women’s Rosh Chodesh groups for worship, study and
fellowship. Is this something that could
take hold here?
So we read of the Rosh Chodesh offerings
today. On this Shabbat when we announce
the coming of Rosh Chodesh Av this coming Friday. The message, to me, is this. Celebrating Rosh Chodesh, the New Moon
needn’t be a ‘lost’ ritual. Even if our
concerns are not the same as those of our ancient forebears, we can find a
rationale to stop our busy routines and mark its passage. We might use it as a reminder of the lives of
our distant ancestors. Or we might use
it to create new and meaningful ways to celebrate our lives today. Either way, we do well by not succumbing to
Religion Fatigue, throwing up our hands, and shouting, Enough!
Rosh Chodesh informs us that all which
is stale can be as new. We can breathe
new life into ancient customs. Next
week, with Temple Shalom’s AGM behind us, we can commit ourselves anew to the
life of our community. Instead of
perpetually looking back, we can look forward.
Even as the New Moon informed the ancients that life would not end
anytime soon, we can take comfort that we are not through yet. We can move forward from strength to
strength. May G-d grant us the vision to
make it so. May the coming Rosh Chodesh
serve as a reminder of the possibilities, with which G-d has blessed us. Shabbat shalom!
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